Today’s morning brings a new surprise to all of us as Facebook has upgraded some of the features in Fan Pages. The changes as Facebook says are aimed to managing communication, improving expression and increasing engagement.
The changes are in terms of visual and navigation appearance for fans as well page administrators. In addition, there are set of new features which add on to page functionality.
While, Facebook has released an official note about the announcement, here is what I understand from the upgrade:
Tabs make way for Pictures
Like profiles, Facebook pages would now display your most recent uploads or tagged pictures right at the top.
Tabs Shift to Left Navigation
Don’t worry the tabs haven’t gone anywhere :) Like your profile, they have just shifted to the left navigation area. What’s more there is also a special view for page administrators called as the “Admin View”.
Profile Pictures of Page Administrators
Now page administrators don’t need to go to the page settings, to figure out who the other page administrators are. I tested this feature and from what it appears, this is only meant for the admins. Fans, won’t able to see the profile pictures of page administrators.
Set Page as Your Profile
If you use this feature, you would be able to receive notifications for all the interactions made on your page. That’s not all you can also comment on other pages on behalf of the page. Example, I can comment on the itemperance fan page in the name of Iffort and not Daksh Sharma.
Off-course, whenever you want you can switch to your normal Facebook profile.
Comment on Your Fan Page from Your Facebook Profile
A feature that’s perhaps everybody was craving for. Earlier, whenever you made comments on your fan-page they were not linked to your profile. Now you have an option of choosing how you want your comments to be displayed i.e. from Your FB Profile or as Page.
Add Featured Pages and Page Admin Profile Pics
You could say, this is Facebook’s method of Backlinking/Creating a blogroll. On your fan page, you can display other pages that you like. Moreover, you can also display profile pictures of page administrators who manage those fan-pages.
For details about the announcement please read the Facebook note and read Inside Facebook.com’s version.
What do you think about the latest updates to Fan pages? How would this impact your fan-page? Is there any feature that we have missed. Please feel free to add through comments !!
Monday, March 14, 2011
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Arranged Marriage - Tamil Brahmin style
Two of my very good friends got married recently.. Both were fully arranged traditional Tamil brahmin (tam brahm) weddings. one iyer (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iyer) and the other iyengar (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iyengar) - 2 major sects among tam brahms.
Method I :The online way – done through matrimonial sites. These websites have hope for all – be it a divorcee or a single parent or a normal unmarried person :P .The concept really revolutionized and capitalized on the arranged marriages scene here . It’s really popular now because it works… And this is how :
1. Putting up the girls’ profile and “(decent) photos” on matrimonial sites.
2. Scouring through hundreds of profiles to find the perfect boy ( good boy,fair boy, good family and preferably settled in the US- more points if the boy lives in popular business hubs- yeah! Silicon valley, Texas and New York sound great. Earlier only software engineers were in demand, but now thats out-thanks to recession)
3. Once they hit upon a good profile, the parents call and exchange the jaathakams(astrological charts) and see if those match.If yes, then photos are exchanged.
4. If okay, both the fams meet. This meeting typically consists of the parents asking questions, judging the family and eating vada,bajji, bonda, kesari.. Oh nowadays its really cool to offer cookies (only eggless mind you :D Cuz we are strict vegetarians but conveniently forget that most of our tam bram foreign boys love chicken) and diet coke – in case the foreign mapillai isnt too much into our (oily)snacks..
5. Then the girl and guy are asked to go into a separate room to get to know each other( don’t get ideas now) for abt half hour and in some lucky cases an hour or so …
6. If all goes well, the families agree on a date for the engagement and proceed with the other prep. If the girl / guy is not okay, then they just make up random excuses to the other party.. I mean you cant obviously say that the girl is too dark or the boy earns a little too less or that she would like to work (to be an independent working professional- which is at times not acceptable) or that he is going bald … :D
Method II: Maami – Mama socializing networking
Note: For the benefit of the ignorant – Maami generally refers to married and older Tam Brahm women.Mama – any married Brahm man maybe?
Though this could be the less treaded path, am sure most maami’s and mama’s attend weddings to look for potential partners for their children or at least for other eligible and single men/women who are looking-to-marry. This also probably because a Tam Brahm wedding can possibly have only a majority of Tam Brahms attending – makes it easier i guess. They look, they observe, they ask around then strike up a conversation with that poor unassuming girl / guy and then take it forward…
I had a minimum of at least 4 such conversations, though I refused to let them move any further… I have heard that this approach has worked many times… lol… so here goes:
” Hello aunty… yes, am doing good. How about you?…
I work for blah blah organization…(am sure it wouldn’t have mattered)
Am 23 aunty…( rude, very rude)
No not married…( oh! )
Yes, I am single.. no no am not seeing anyone.
No my parents are not looking out either..(its not a crime right?)
No, not for another couple of years… Am not in a hurry.. (What? REALLY?! yeah, really aunty)
Yes, I want to be independent, on my own.. Work for a bit and stuff .. I ll know when am ready to marry, if at all I want to that is… ( Scandalizing- it was too much for her to take – She gave up:) :) ) ”
Note to self: This is fun.
So going back,I can say that though the processes themselves seem surreal and movie-like, both the weddings I witnessed were beautiful. I say beautiful because it’s really not easy to get to know new people, understand their ideas and accommodate their preferences in a short span of time . Putting together a big wedding is a herculean task. So many silent compromises are made and so many new bonds are established.Its an effort taken by both the families to make this work for their children. And with so much love and hope going into these efforts, it can never possibly go wrong. Sigh :D
Method I :The online way – done through matrimonial sites. These websites have hope for all – be it a divorcee or a single parent or a normal unmarried person :P .The concept really revolutionized and capitalized on the arranged marriages scene here . It’s really popular now because it works… And this is how :
1. Putting up the girls’ profile and “(decent) photos” on matrimonial sites.
2. Scouring through hundreds of profiles to find the perfect boy ( good boy,fair boy, good family and preferably settled in the US- more points if the boy lives in popular business hubs- yeah! Silicon valley, Texas and New York sound great. Earlier only software engineers were in demand, but now thats out-thanks to recession)
3. Once they hit upon a good profile, the parents call and exchange the jaathakams(astrological charts) and see if those match.If yes, then photos are exchanged.
4. If okay, both the fams meet. This meeting typically consists of the parents asking questions, judging the family and eating vada,bajji, bonda, kesari.. Oh nowadays its really cool to offer cookies (only eggless mind you :D Cuz we are strict vegetarians but conveniently forget that most of our tam bram foreign boys love chicken) and diet coke – in case the foreign mapillai isnt too much into our (oily)snacks..
5. Then the girl and guy are asked to go into a separate room to get to know each other( don’t get ideas now) for abt half hour and in some lucky cases an hour or so …
6. If all goes well, the families agree on a date for the engagement and proceed with the other prep. If the girl / guy is not okay, then they just make up random excuses to the other party.. I mean you cant obviously say that the girl is too dark or the boy earns a little too less or that she would like to work (to be an independent working professional- which is at times not acceptable) or that he is going bald … :D
Method II: Maami – Mama socializing networking
Note: For the benefit of the ignorant – Maami generally refers to married and older Tam Brahm women.Mama – any married Brahm man maybe?
Though this could be the less treaded path, am sure most maami’s and mama’s attend weddings to look for potential partners for their children or at least for other eligible and single men/women who are looking-to-marry. This also probably because a Tam Brahm wedding can possibly have only a majority of Tam Brahms attending – makes it easier i guess. They look, they observe, they ask around then strike up a conversation with that poor unassuming girl / guy and then take it forward…
I had a minimum of at least 4 such conversations, though I refused to let them move any further… I have heard that this approach has worked many times… lol… so here goes:
” Hello aunty… yes, am doing good. How about you?…
I work for blah blah organization…(am sure it wouldn’t have mattered)
Am 23 aunty…( rude, very rude)
No not married…( oh! )
Yes, I am single.. no no am not seeing anyone.
No my parents are not looking out either..(its not a crime right?)
No, not for another couple of years… Am not in a hurry.. (What? REALLY?! yeah, really aunty)
Yes, I want to be independent, on my own.. Work for a bit and stuff .. I ll know when am ready to marry, if at all I want to that is… ( Scandalizing- it was too much for her to take – She gave up:) :) ) ”
Note to self: This is fun.
So going back,I can say that though the processes themselves seem surreal and movie-like, both the weddings I witnessed were beautiful. I say beautiful because it’s really not easy to get to know new people, understand their ideas and accommodate their preferences in a short span of time . Putting together a big wedding is a herculean task. So many silent compromises are made and so many new bonds are established.Its an effort taken by both the families to make this work for their children. And with so much love and hope going into these efforts, it can never possibly go wrong. Sigh :D
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